“I was thinking how fortunate it was that I had been fired” — Don Imus
Heeeeee’s baaaaaaack! Last week Don Imus returned to the national airwaves on WABC/770 AM. In April of this year Imus was eventually fired from his job as radio host after creating a national firestorm by referring to the Rutger’s women basketball players as “nappy-headed hos” amongst other inexcusable phrases. Should he have been rehired so quickly? While this question can be reasonably debated, the original Imus termination cannot. The triple-coated blend of Imus’ inexcusable remarks, his long history of similar unacceptable commentary, and the fact that this so-called “shock-jock” acted as a gateway for our nation’s presidential candidates should have made this question a “no brainer”. But according to polls, half of the country (white Americans to be specific) did not feel the same way. As a result, one man’s job became a national controversy, a brand new reason emerged to blame hip hop, and “Save Imus” websites sprouted up all over the place. After being forced to reflect on the matter, even Don Imus himself now agrees that he should have been fired back in April. But what exactly has this self-reflection period meant for the rest of us?
The Scarlet Letter Myth: One of the greatest social fears in the world of many white individuals is to be labeled “a racist” – even if the label is well-earned and well-deserved. I’ve been told on countless occasions that the “racist” label is a terrible stigma, can be a “career-ender”, and operates like “the Scarlet Letter”. As a result, there is often an almost instinctive Pavlovian reaction on the part of many whites to deny or apologize for any accusation of racial bias. Reactive claims of “PC culture run amok”, “playing the race card”, and desperate searches for any other far-fetched “anything-but-bigotry” explanation are as predictable as another inexcusable Imus crack. As a result, too many people in their almost pathological need to guard against any possible false diagnosis of racial bias end up as bigotry’s biggest enablers and protectors. However, it is time to set the record straight on the racial "Scarlet Letter Myth".
The Brighter Side of Bigotry: Should we be surprised that Imus landed on his feet again so quickly? Of course not. As Don Imus begins his new gig, consider the following closer look at some other famous folks spouted off bigoted statements in recent times:
- Entertainers: Michael Richards, who went on one of the most vitriolic racist rants that you will ever hear this side of a Klan rally, has his career exactly where it was before his remarks: Going nowhere, but still receiving millions in Seinfeld royalties (as he should). Mel Gibson’s drunken and anti-Semitic tirade earlier this year resulted in his very next movie Apocolypto grossing over 100 million all together.
- Police: Mark Fuhrman, former police detective of OJ fame admittedly targeted black men, planted evidence, bragged about the worst police misconduct, and had a particularly strong affinity to the N-word. Despite these chilling and disturbing Mark Fuhrman tape transcripts, he has done quite well for himself: 1) His own account of the OJ case reached #1 on the best seller list; 2) he wrote two additional best-sellers (non-OJ); 3) he is a frequent guest of commentator Sean Hannity for FOX News; and 4) he was also the host of the popular "Mark Fuhrman Show" in Spokane prior to its recent cancellation.
- Politics: Senate Trent Lott (R-Miss.): At a 100th birthday tribute to former Sen. Strom Thurmond Lott said the nation would have been better off had Thurmond won his bid for president as a segregationist Dixiecrat in 1948. Last year in his first election since, Lott won reelection with a whopping 64% of Mississippi’s popular vote!
A closer look might reveal that this feared "social stigma" is not remotely close to a “career-ender”, but might more accurately be described as a CAREER ENHANCER when measured in the long run. But what about social shame? There are far greater social consequences erring athletes who play our national pastimes (see Bill Buckner, Scott Norwood) than erring bigots who make our national policy.
The Real Deal on Social Stigmas:
- The Real Race Stigma: The greatest social stigma that can affect one’s career in mainstream media and many other professions in America is this: Not being white (and male too). White talk radio hosts are at a great advantage over non-white ones as radio audiences are overwhelmingly white and prefer their news filtered through a “white perspective”. Same for cable news: This study on Imus coverage by “Media Matters” shows that ALL 35 cable news hosts are white and only 6 are female. In other words, there is no career-affecting social backlash against the likes of Bill O’Reilly, Sean Hannity, or Glenn Beck, but every aspiring non-white cable news host in the entire country has a built-in social stigma that they can see every morning in their bathroom mirror.
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The Real Political Stigma: While Lott wins elections in landslide votes, virtually all politicians know full well that fighting institutional racism often amounts to political suicide. Why are politicians so scared to touch our racially-biased criminal justice system no matter how many scientific studies come out each year? Why do politicians rarely broach the racial inequities in our school systems? Why are so many politicians lukewarm about coming out unflinchingly strong about a racial injustice as basic as The Jena 6? Because such actions rarely win elections. There is a price to be paid. The great irony is that you can long for segregation of years past and get reelected, but if you dare fight our current segregated criminal justice and educational systems…
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The Anti-Racist Stigma: For every activist who FIGHTS racism, hate mail and often death threats are simply part of the job description. This is not a surprise, just expected. Just ask ANY activist of any color who regularly battles against bigotry. Fighting racism is always a much lonelier place than spreading it. People who spread it always have sympathizers, always have apologists, and always have great company who believe that they were treated too harshly. People who fight it, especially in the media, EXPECT their career to take a nose dive, and don’t expect for anyone to take up their cause.
- The Racial VICTIM Stigma: Just how up-side down do social stigmas work? Consider this: shortly after the Imus – Rutgers blowout, and the wife of Don Imus was complaining about all the hate mail that was being received. Was Imus getting too much hate mail? No, the RUTGER’S WOMEN were! Ms. Imus pleaded that it be sent to Imus instead. Now stop, pause, and digest that fact for a second. Imus, the perpetrator wasn’t receiving hate mail, but the VICTIMS were!






I don’t understand your problem.
I have posted at length about this issue on TSF and to me there is no racism in what Imus said. Sexism, yes, Racism no. He got yanked off the air, something that he loves, and now he has that back. What more do you want? He was punished.
As for Micheal Richards, what you think the government should come in an take his Seinfield money? His career is dead now, its over for him, leave the guy alone.
Mark Furman is the same deal, he will never be a cop again, and he has no professional (police officer) support any more. He writes books yes, but what do you expect him to do. He has nothing else left. Would you rather see him jobless on the street?
Mel Gibson was drunk, how can you hold what he said against him. The only think wrong with Mel is that he is an alcoholic, but he got treatment and is out making great work. Why should he be punished.
Trent Lott said something nice for a friend, and liberals like you want to jump all over the man for it. Give me a break, if anything get on him for being a hypocrite “closted gay”. Not for “racism” in which he was saying something nice to an old man.
Modi
We are reading, know that! Your work is very deep and
a lot of the time just digesting it and knowing it’s the
truth, can leave you thinking, and wondering!
Davemac,
Yes, I would love to see Furman homeless!
How many live’s did he destroy, emotionally?
You seem to be another ” Bagdad Bob” with weak excuses!
You are mentally blind!
I both agree and disagree with DavidMac. While I agree with many of the issues raised in “Scarlet Letter” the examples weren’t great.
Your beef seems to be with things that no one can control.
1) As DavidMac says you can’t take away Michael Richards’ royalties. He didn’t commit a crime.
2)While Apocalypto did make a surprising $120 million worldwide, it only grossed about $50 million domestically. And while Gibson probably made money on the movie because it was relatively low budget, it wasn’t considered a big hit, certainly not on par with Passion or some of his mainstream films. Besides, the controversy probably HELPED.
3)With Furman, again notoriety sells. The public is weak-minded. What Furman could possibly have to say in not one but two books is beyond me, but people would have bought the OJ book too if it had been published.
4)Does it REALLY surprise you that Lott got 70% of the vote in MISSISSIPPI!?! A state that with the possible exception of Georgia is probably the most backward in the Union?
As a former resident of Mississippi and current resident of Alabama. I can not stand for the insults you hurl at both states Tray. Alabama an Mississippi are great states with great people that occupy them, they are not backwards by any means.
DavidMac
I’m sure that “Delay” Beckworth agrees with you!
But thats only both your opinions against millions.
Against millions of who, peaceman? Ignorant northerners.
DavidMac,
1) I have also discussed Imus at length (http://www.cosellout.com/?p=3) and let’s just agree-to-disagree.
2) No, I don’t think that the government should take Michael Richards money. But his career was “dead” the day after the final episode of Seinfeld.
3) Mark Fuhrman SHOULD never be a cop again, and frankly, anyone who disagrees deserves to get their car pulled over, get their ass kicked with Fuhrman’s nightstick, and thrown in jail afterwards!!!!! Did you actually excerpts of those tapes about how he treats black “suspects” and interracial couples? Perhaps you would like to fight for Tim Donaghy’s reinstatement in the NBA. … The citing og Fuhrman’s two best sellers was more of a commentary on the rest of us than him.
4)Please stop about Mel Gibson, he was anti-semitic long before his drunken tirade. The drunk tirade might have been a revelation for you, but for many others it was simply confirmation about what we’ve always known. I would explain it to you in detail, but your “anything-but-bigotry” standard operating procedure would not permit you to digest it.
5) “Trent Lott said something nice for a friend”. Please stop. Like Don Imus, like Mel Gibson, Lott has a long history to where his latest comments — again — just confirmed what we already knew. Of course, Lott is by far the most dangerous since he actually forms policy for our country when he is not ingratiating himself to the “Council of Conservative Citizens”
But moving on DavidMac, ONCE AGAIN you missed the main point which can be contained in the last paragraph (“moral of the story”). While you continue to fight for any of the most far-flung explanations to not hold accountable those who routinely perpetuate bigotry, it comes at a grave cost. Instead of this stance, why not simply reflect what it means to live in a world where the Rutgers women receive hate mail, but Imus doesn’t; and a time where murder victims (see Sean Taylor) are treated like the murderers. You are missing the bigger picture.
Finally, you ASSUMED my stance on the Imus comeback when I actually offered no opinion. I have no big problem with him returning, especially if he were to change his ways.(something that would NEVER been done without his initial termination). If a new Imus returns, perhaps he can bring some listeners along with him, and something good could come out of it. If Imus’ return can bring about positive social change, then it is all good. Of course, that remains to be seen. You see, I am a strong believer in redemption. But redemption comes after a very necessary process that includes punishment. Imus hadn’t changed his tune for 30 years in part because Imus’ bigoted statements were excused for 30 years by his enablers: Enablers like you. But I will root for your redemption too.
Tray, your point about the OJ book selling has merit, but that has more to do with the curiousity of content (“If I Did It”). If OJ went out to write any old book about crime and punishment I am quite confident that it would bomb. Fuhrman is writing books on OTHER topics and getting rewarded. The bottom line is it is quite likely that many people out there who buy his books BECAUSE of what he said on those tapes or that they sympathize with his “social punishment”.
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First, I’d like to apologize to the great state of Mississippi for calling it “backwards”. I have never lived there or even visited so anything I have to say about its backwardness is purely secondhand. However, I WILL NOT APOLOGIZE TO GEORGIA! I have a beef with some of their Draconian laws which I won’t go into because it is way off-topic.
Great stuff MODI,
Great breakdown of the so called racial taboo. At least that what it used to be. These day’s cats like George Allen can get away scott free after making obvious racial slurs with little or no repurcussions. It’s getting a little scary actually. It’s weird, but as a black man it’s almost preferable to be feared and hated than thought of as irrelevent. I think the racial climate that Reagan set in this country has been a huge setback.
– Tray, perhaps the stories of Genarlow Wilson and Marcus Dixon might be a good place to start your Georgia draconian law commentary
– AWB, don’t give Reagan all the credit! Reagan took Nixon’s political-Racial blueprint and just did it better. Nixon took George Wallace’s racial-blueprint, softened the hateful edges, and mainstreamed it.
Let me say this about the South.
They reinact the Civil war every year in full costume!
Why would anyone with a Brain cell reinact a War they lost?
Also, former Mayor Rudy G. is putting out the fact that his first wife was his 1rst cousin! What a cheap way to gain the southern vote!
Peaceman, you are the reason southern people don’t like some northerners.
You talk like you have been to the south, but by looking at what you post, it is clear that that is not true, and that you just speak from you ass.
DavidMac, let me say this. I am a native New Yorker who currently lives in DC area. My job has me traveling all the time and most of the work i do is in the south. By enlarge, I actually PREFER people from the south and would even prefer living in the south. I find that there is more kindness, civility, and everyday hospitality that many northeners can learn from.
However, in racial terms there exist the worst laws and many of these laws are direct descendants from the Jim Crow era. I’ve personally done a great deal of professional research into our nation’s criminal justice system and the incarceration of young black man is one of the most profitable assets and is seen as “economic development” opportunities particularly in rural areas. There is a reason that all of the most notorious and famous cases like The Jena 6, Marcus Dixon, Genarlow Wilson, Shaquanda Cotton, come from southern states. There is a reason that many southern states have “restitution fees” that require newly freed to PAY their probation officer fees and those who violate get sent back to prison. These laws are exclusive of southern states.
And the people of southern states have to take collective responsibility for voting for politicians and legislature that enact these laws… You can’t divorce these laws from the people any more than you could divorce the people from those who lived under under Jim Crow rule and slavery before that. So when a state votes 70% for Trent Lott or the majotity of whites in Louisiana vote for David Duke for governor back in 1991 (and there is no reason to think Louisiana has radically changed since 1991), then yes, that state opens itself up to generalizations and criticisms. The state has made a DEMOCRATIC statement…
Finally, DavidMac, have you ever been on a plantation tour? I have. It was a few years ago in Louisiana (pre-Katrina). i thought that it would be an educational experience… a 21st century confrontation with our past. I was apalled to find out that it was a complete nostaligic glorification! After going over every fine point detail of the wonderful home, after an hour tourists were given an unguided individual OPTION to go see the slave quarters! …the experience left a horrible taste in my mouth and my complaint to management fell on deaf ears… they couldn’t even understand why I was mad… I felt that i was from Mars…
Moral of Story: in a democracy, the people of any state needs to be held at least partially accountable for who they elect, what laws they accept, and what they will and will not fight against. Thus, generalizations about southern states have some merit. It is understood that such generalizations do not apply to ALL its residents.
Why in the Hell would I want to go where you have
inbreds driving pickups with Confederate flag license plates
all over the place? I’ve never seen one in Brooklyn!
No thanks DaveMac! I’m not a fan of names like Billybob,
Sallyjoe, Bobbyjoe, Maryjoe, Gomer or Goober!
I also hear they don’t have Metro Cards down there either!
Great piece as usual MODI…no one can top your thoroughness…your blog is always a lesson for me.
Davidmac…there was no racism in Imus’s comments? Really? So you thought “nappy head” referred to their height? “jiggaboos, wannabes”…what do you think he was referring to? Their religious faith??
I can think of millions of reasons why people would re-enact a war that they lost. And, to be honest, the South lost only the military phase of the war. The folks who initiated the secession effort are quite pleased with how the region has been dealt with since the Compromise of 1877.
@ Miranda
Nappy head is a description of hair. I’ve seen whites called nappy head. There is nothing racial about that at all, having nappy hair is not an only black thing.
The only slur he used was “ho” and like I said before that is sexist more than racist.
@MODI
As for the south, the laws that Gnarlow Wilson was locked up on is not a racist law. It is a poorly written law, but racist, not in the least. As for the other people you are refereing to, I only am aware of the Jena 6, and their was no unfair law used against those kids, blame the DA if you must, but the law was fair. So maybe that crap yo are spewing works for people who live where you live, but being down here most of my life, I can tell you off the bat the laws are fair, and there aren’t any laws that unfairly target blacks or keep them from doing anything.
As for David Duke, if you kept up with the local politics of the area, you would know why he was in the runoff, he was a protest vote to the crooks in office there, its that simple, not because of his beliefs. Why to generalize entire regions, I thought you were for looking for the truth. I guess that is only when it suits you though.
As for plantation tours, yes I’ve been on them, I’ve been to one in Georgia, I went to one in the Birmingham, AL area, visited one in Montgomery, and went to Jefferson Davis’s mansion in Biloxi. No big deal to me, its a part of the history, why should it be ignored or torn down.
DavidMac about “nappy head” please stop. It is to the point of pathological how far that you will look for a more benign explanation. I know, I know: when he called Patrick Ewing a “knuckle-dragging moron”, he could have said the same exact thing to a long-armed white player. When he called the Knicks “chest-thumping” pimps, he could have said the same after a baseball or hockey fight. When he called Howard Kurtz a “boner-nosed…beanie-wearing Jewboy”, he could have said the same thing about anyone else wearing a “beanie” who had a big nose. When he referred to Gwen Ifill as “a cleaning lady”, he could have just as easily been talking about Barbara Walters. When he called Bill Rhoden “a quota hire” he could have also been referring to Bob Costas. When he said “wasn’t in a woodpile” to H Rap. Brown, it also had absolutely no racial reference. These are honest misunderstandings. Why won’t everybody stop being so damn PC! Can’t a radio host just talk anymore. Oh the oppression!
As for southern laws applied to Genarlow Wilson, Marcus Dixon, Jena 6, and Shaquanda Cotton, they ARE racist laws if they are routinely only applied to blacks. This is the VERY SAME RATIONALE that was used for 100 years to defend Jim Crow. They said since it was :”separate but EQUAL” then the law wasn’t racist. The fact that it wasn’t equal was merely incidental and irrelevent. This is the type of shit that Thurgood Marshall and Charles Houston had to battle for 30 years to overturn Brown v. Board (chronicled in great book “A Simple Justice”)If laws are made with a routine and consistent difference in their application then Einstein need not be present to understand why those laws are made. Don’t argue with me. Show me the white georgia equivalents to Marcus Dixon and Genarlow Wilson. Show me the 22-year sentence white equivalents to the Jena 6. Show me the white equivalents to Shaquanda Cotton. These are all current examples. And please don’t insult me with bringing up the Duke boys or anyone else who never spent a day in jail. That would do a great disservice to all the names just mentioned.
– Please don’t excuse the Duke vote and let voters off the hook. That is one hell of a protest vote! Next you are going to tell me that I shouldn’t “generalize” about all those in Birmingham who voted for Bull Connor or Alabama who voted for George Wallace. Perhaps I need to understand the local politics better. Very reckless on my part.
– Your plantation tours must not have been the same as the one I went on. If it was, then your problem is far worse then I thought.
No the laws for the Jena 6 aren’t racist. If you dislike the DA that is one thing, but the laws themselves aren’t racist. To say they are Jim Crow laws are simply ridiculous because it shows you don’t know much about history, because these laws don’t divide along race in any shape.
Marcus Dixon is a rapist. he had a history of sexual misconduct and there is no reason in my mind to believe a girl chose to lose her virginity to the guy in a classroom trailer. He is a rapist who got off.
Genarlow Wilson is not the only person to be convicted un aggrevated child molestion and probably won’t be the last, but his situation was resolved.
As for the Duke vote, why not, you don’t like to see the real truth, you want to see what you want to believe. He was voted for the run-off as a protest vote, there was no way he was going to win the real election.
Bull connor won an election. George Wallace won his election and had black voter support. So I fail to see your point. Those election weren’t protest votes anyway and they wer ein a different time. Nice method to try to spin what you want out of nothing though.
I’m not overly sensitive. You white boys need to stop thinking you know what its like to be black or you know what offends blacks. You don’t.
If every 17 yr old male that received oral sex from a 15 yr old female was in prison in Georgia… there’d be no males left in school.
I don’t know what it is like to be black, but I know it is wrong to go to jail for a blow job.
Thank you GMP. Let’s get one thing out of the way first DMac. I will never know what it’s like to be black, and I would never have the personal audacity to make such a claim. A person of ANY color should be deeply offended by the examples that are raised here. Wrong is simply wrong. Nice try though. Moving on.
– If you fail to see the points on Duke, Connor, and Wallace, then someone else will have to explain it.
– Laws, when consistently applied, unfairly by race are racist laws. If you want to talk only on a semantic level then you are technically correct. I will grant you being semantically right. But let’s enter reality. I am talking about the reality of how our criminal justice system works. While racially biased drug laws exist in all states, there are distinct legal differences in many southern states (i.e. restitution fees) I could go into great detail on this if you were less interested in semantics. The routine APPLICATION of these laws are not always independent from the laws themselves and often play a role at the very CONCEPTION of those laws (i.e. see crack vs. cocaine).
– About Marcus Dixon: The jury took an entire 20 minutes to determine that the sex was consensual. We all know why he was sent away for 10 years for statutory rape although he was 18 and she was almost 16. Please show me a counter-equivalent of a white kid getting this sentence for sleeping with a younger black girl (hell, or even another white girl). Genarlow Wilson also got 10 years for his blowjob and it ONLY got resolved because enough activists and Americans fought on his behalf. Those are TWO recent Georgia examples of how statutory rape is treated. Can you specifically find me two similar examples involving white teenagers. Do you have any facts like that or merely conjecture?
When putting every egregious case after case after case together and all the worst victims are young black teenagers, just how many examples and new studies do there have to be to acknowledge a pattern of bias?
its because he had it on video gmp.
I’m not offended by these events.
Duke like I said before was a protest vote against the status quo. He won a republican runoff, a party that is weak statewide in LA. He won it and was beaten easily in the general election.
Connor was elected in the 1930s, what do you expect. That a choice by the people to have someone who represented their views. So what?
George Wallace ran for governor as a seggregationist, everyone knew personally he had no qualms with blacks, its just what you had to do at the time to win an election in Alabama. Later on when society changed, he had a great deal of black support in elections and so did his wife. Society changed.
How do those events compare to David Duke in 1991, they don’t society was different back then. When Duke ran he simply made it as far as he did to protest the corrupt politicians in the state.
Laws are laws, who applies them to certain situations is the racist. That is not even a hard concept. You have qualms with DAs, I do too, and rightfully so. The fact remains the laws in the south and in Georgia are just. The loophole for the previously poorly written aggregavated child molestation law has now been closed. What is the problem. The DA who charged Genarlow will no longer have a career in the public sector once his appointment is finished, so what is the problem.
The jury can determine what they want, but the school district ended up paying the family money because of the non-action they took on Marcus Dixon for the previous sexual misconduct he had taken at the school before hand.
He was sentenced for 10 years the same reason Generalow was, the same law was applied, it has a minimum sentence of 10 years in GA. Again, the jury said they thought they were chosing the lesser crime, they did not know that the charge was more severe under the law. But I forgot, never say it was human error or ignorance it was malicious, those no good racist got him.
Tell me all the egregious cases after cases. The fact is people make mistakes, laws my be baadly written, but in none of these cases was the law racist.
DavidMac,
– Although fully prepared to do so, I don’t wish to continue the Duke, Wallace, and Connor as I find some of your statements absurd.
– I am less concerned with bad DA’s than instiutional systems that allow “bad DA’s” to become worse. Reed Walters should have been fired long ago, but if a replacement has the same mindset then his removal means little. Again, laws are often made with bias at their inception. Since you could never imagine such a thing, I will cease explaining here.
Tell me all the egregious cases. i already gave you four teenagers:
– Marcus Dixon, Genarlow Wilson, Shaquanda Cotton, Michael Bell’s 22 year sentence. If these and so many other cases are merely a function of “human error” than surely a random sample could just as easily turn up four white teenagers. But yet again I wait for your names. When “human error” consistently has the same color attached to it, then any reasonable and logical person would have to acknowledge a larger problem. But again, I wait for your white teenagers.
But the issue is so much bigger than four names. it is clearly institutional.
– I don’t know how familiar you are with Byron Halsey (recently proven innocent after serving 19 years) and other DNA exonerees, but a full report of 200 DNA exonerees does not show anything near racial equity. Here read about all 200: http://www.innocenceproject.org/Images/751/ip_200.pdf DNA testing gives us a lot of new information we did not have before, lets learn from the results.
– I also don’t know how familiar you are with the recent study on the “war on drugs” including it’s racial implications: http://www.sentencingproject.org/tmp/File/Drug%20Policy/dp_25yearquagmire.pdf
Here are two tidbits;
– African Americans comprise 14% of regular drug users, but are 37% of those arrested for drug offenses and 56% of persons in state prison for drug offenses;
– African Americans serve almost as much time in federal prison for a drug offense (58.7 months) as whites do for a violent offense (62 months), largely due to racially disparate sentencing laws such as the 100-to-1 crack-powder cocaine disparity;
DavidMac, I can offer you real life names, I can offer you scientific data, I can offer you analysis of DNA exonerees. If you don’t want to see a SYSTEM of discrimination because of your pre-dispositions, than there is absolutely nothing that can ever convince you that there is a widespread problem. When someone has an ironclad position, evidence no longer matters. They will always find some crazy reason to explain it away. That is your personal issue, not mine. still waiting to here about all those white teenagers the system has randomly wronged the last few years…